Love is an intricate assortment of biochemistry, thoughts, feelings, and behaviour. To get true love in life, you need to have a suitable partner or fiancee. But how to choose the perfect one? Many people love to go for dates to understand the mindset of the to-be partner. But dating too can be tricky. It is a practical scenario and not about making swoony declarations like celebrities or expressing that it is love at first sight. Dating is about creating romantic moments, ambience, camaraderie, wavelength and compatibility with your special one.
If you are a girl and going for a date, then little things will make you happy. Every girl prefers to have a good man to love. Same thing for guys too who look for an attractive and caring personality in the opposite sex. However, it seems they tend to focus more on looks, lipstick colour, getup or appearance. Whether it is just for pure fun or serious commitment, here are some scintillating ideas that will end up making your dating successful.
Look Charming and Attractive
Whether you are a girl or guy, if you are going for a date, then it is mandatory to look gorgeous and physically charming. It is just inevitable even if you are dating online. That’s why dating sites feature stunning photos of guys and girls looking to date there. Studies also show that one’s chances of getting a second date or having an online potentiality reaction to a profile are heavily impacted by a charismatic personality. Good looks with nice attire and chic jewels, presentability seems to be the most important thing.
For men, the concept of beauty is different. They are especially are fascinated by gorgeous women with the low waist-to-hip ratio which they consider an epitome of health, youth, and fertility. Beautiful women evoke stronger feelings in men looking to be serious in their commitment or even just flirt for having a good time. Hence, the foremost necessity in dating is to look gorgeous and hot, so make every effort to be like that on your date.
Switch Off Your Phone
There’s nothing more irritating than phones ringing in your private hours. It can be a sales call or even a text from your office colleague, that can spoil your date or create interruption. Thus, turn off your phone and gear up for a fascinating and continuous conversation.
Find the Exact Wavelength
It can take one date or several dates before you find the perfect partner whom you are looking for. If you are looking for a serious commitment, it is all about sharing a similar wavelength, interests, goals, and mindset to embark on a fulfilling romantic journey together. If two persons are poles apart or are contradictory, the relationship is never going to be successful. Thus dating offers the perfect opportunity to know each other’s wishes and likes for deeper connection and everlasting moments. It has been found in studies that both men and women develop sizzling chemistry with people whom they comprehend as being on the same wavelength.
Be Frank and Candid
Occasional rejection and dejection will be there if you date regularly. But you need to be open, frank and communicate freely with the other person in your date. It generates closeness and attachment between couples or people who are looking to be together. Even if you are just flirting or looking for a fling, sociability is very important. Stare into each other’s eyes, talk about your experiences in life, funny incidents and moments and what you like about him or her. Communication makes the bond so strong that some couples get married after their dating.
Avoid the ‘Ex’ Conversation
Whether you are just flirting or serious, it does not make any sense to dwell in the past and talk about your ex. Never talk about him/her or discuss the reason behind the breakup. Think only about the present moment, make compliments to the guy or girl sitting in front of you and appreciate the venue if it is in a natural surrounding.
Order Something Nice on the Plate
Dating is not only about talking. If you are a guy, the best way to impress a girl is to order the best snack or main course on your date. It’s the food you order that can make or break your chemistry with the person sitting across from you. From ordering wine to having a sinful delicacy such as quesadilla, good food can make your conversation and date much more memorable.
If it is your first date, when you’ll hopefully be talking a lot, avoid getting sodas and frothy drinks that will leave you burping all night. Rather choose iced tea or lemonade. Ordering chopsticks or spaghetti can be flirtatious. Desserts such as Froyo, ice cream, lemon meringue or cheesecake are always popular among couples looking to have a wonderful time during their date.
Do the Follow-up
If you are not impressed and don’t want a second date, don’t say you’ll call him or her. Never hurt the sentiments of the person even if you don’t like him or find her attractive. There is no point in playing games, erotic, raunchy, or being just flirtatious after the first date if you are not serious about him or her. End the evening by saying “I had a great time or it was a nice experience to be with you”. If you are impressed with him or her on your first date, make it a point to contact her within a couple of days.
The first impression is the last impression. Follow the dating tips and find the perfect partner for yourself. Be the happiest person on the planet.